Alright gentlemen, I will lay it all out there for you to understand Colombian women, their culture, psychology, status games, and most importantly how to seduce them.
Now, please keep in mind I am perfectly bilingual, so Colombia is honeypot for me. With that said I will be speaking from my, personal experiences, perspectives and ability, but I will try to be considerate for you inferior monolingual cretins.
Let’s begin…
Types of Colombian Women
Before we go into the how to’s and what not to do’s, it’s a good idea to to understand Colombian latinas (they are a sexy diverse mix). We can thank the Spanish Conquistadors for their race mixing, it created the the most beautiful race of women in Latino America… but Brasileras can also be contested in the top spot.
Colombian women can stereotypically be divided by socioeconomic status and race. Understanding this is an important foundation to understanding Colombian women’s desires, needs, dogma, & societal pressures.
Colombian Women Ethnicities
In Colombia you have usually 6 races. The combination of these races is what has made the new latino race. (Please don’t try and correct me on the proper use of the term “latino” you can read my article about the the correct Hispanic Latino terminology here.). Anyways… let’s start with the first 3 colors of the crayon box.
- Criollo”White” (Of European Descent typically of Latin origin but can be Germanic or Anglo-Saxon)
- Indigena “Indigenous” (Native Central/South Americans)
- Afro “Sub-Saharan” (Black African Descendants)
Now the combination of these 3 colors is what starts to create the nueva rasa (New Race). Criollo mixed with Afro create mulatto. Afro mixed with Indigena creates Zambos. Now my favourite and the worldwide stereotypical favourite is Criollo mixed with Indigena which creates the beautiful mestiza race. Eventually throughout time the byproducts of race mixing intermingles even further. Keep in mind in the 1900’s in Colombia there was a huge migration of Arab usually Lebanese, Syrian, Turkish migration to the Americas which has also left of traces of DNA however these Arabs share somewhat similar complexion to Latin descendants as they come from the same geographic Mediterranean climates. Also probably why I sometimes confuse till this day Arabs with latinos lol.
Now that you understand this, it’s important to note throughout Colombia subliminally (more so in the higher socioeconomic estratos) there is a saying “Mejorar la rasa” meaning improve the race. This somewhat derogatory Colombian saying refers to typically whitening your race. Mothers and fathers will “jokingly” but with a slight true underdone say this to their children in a reference to try an always date and mate up the genealogy tree. This goes for all races. So use this to your advantage depending on your skin complexion…
Now before you get all woke on me please understand I am solely the messenger. In Colombia the western woke propaganda of sensitive snowflakes has not arrived yet (Hopefully American PC culture stays far away). Colombians (in a loving manner) nickname you based on your physical complexion and will without hesitation refer to each other as Negro (Black), Negrita (Little black girl), Gordo(Fatty) Flaca, (Skinny). Heck! if your lucky they will even call you a faggot (Marika), thats when you know you’ve penetrated the inner Colombian friend circles.
Keep in mind Colombians are not racist people, although they can be somewhat prejudice, it is hard to be racist towards your own ethnicity, as the majority of latinos contain 2/3 if not 3/3 of the foundational races. Even if they don’t 100% look a like, you will easily find sisters one as white as rice and a the other sister of mulato complexion from the same parents. Or white children with an Indigenous grandparent.
Now although Colombians may not be racist they are very very classist people. More so in the higher socioeconomic estratos. Lets take a look below…
Colombian Women & Socioeconomic status
Now this is where the real division comes in. Higher estratos vs Lower estratos. Socialism vs Capitalism. In Latin America left vs right typically just sticks to economic models and typically does not include the whole social cultural tribalism like in the west. It’s usually just the poor vs the rich but that doesn’t mean lower estrato people have a socialist mindset but it does typically mean higher socio-economic estratos have a Right Wing, Capitalistic, American imperialist mindset.
Typically the majority of women in Colombia I have encountered do not pay attention to politics nor do they understand it (the higher the estrato the more politcal understanding they will have or know what is going on…however their parents do, and this gives you subliminal insight on how these women were most likely brought up.
What are Estratos?
Estratos are neighbourhood stratas in Colombia. Neighbourhoods are labelled from 1-6 from 1 (being poorest, also dangerous) to 6 (the richest, touristic, safest). Kind of like the hunger games!
Why are estratos important?
Well my friend, because this gives you insight on Colombian women’s environment they grew up in. It let’s you understand their level of dependancy and necessity for a western man. It lets you rank women on a more traditional scale comparatively to the west. It gives you an understanding of your hierarchal rank amongst the Colombianas, but I will discuss this more in depth below.
Colombian Women Estrato Psychology
These are my personal opinions based on my 10 years living in Colombia and interacting with Colombian women. These are superficial repetitive observations I have observed from my personal experience, and although there is a lot of truth on how I describe these women, there are still many outliers based on each socio-economic tier. With that said lets begin…
Estrato 5-6
“Typically” the richer neighbourhoods are of Criollo or Arab descendants. They live in the higher strata neighbourhoods (Usually 5-6). They control the majority of the Colombian economy & politics. These Colombian girls are your equivalent of your rich, preppy, American girls yet much more difficult for the passport bro to conquer (unless you find them living in the west where the liberal brainwashing has released them of their societal pressured dogmatic inhibitions). These girls are very vain, superficial, spoiled and status oriented Colombians. (Get a prenup if it comes to that stage with them.)
You wont find these girls on tinder/bumble/hinge, most of these girls wouldn’t want to be caught dead on a dating app. If you do find some, they are usually just promoting their IG for you to follow (which means they are a very pretentious type of women). If you have the patience and time, persistence can make way for a date. You have to come in with the “I’m going to marry you and give you everything” type of energy, based solely on mere physical attraction… and these girls will be responding one word replies… it takes a lot of patience gentlemen as all these girl have the “ultima coca cola” type of attitude (the last coca cola in the desert) which is such a turn off for myself. But hey! if your an endurance chase type of simp, have at it!
The second type of high estrato girl you might find on there are the ones that have a little extra loving for you to handle, but hey! love comes in all shapes and sizes!
Most of the time to actually have a chance with these higher estrato girls you must be introduced by friends of friends, family, or find them abroad. These girls must sense some stability or anchor from you to the Colombian city and have a gaze of your reputational status within the community. They typically don’t care if your western rich (although all pretty Colombian girls, but more so higher estrato girls must have a minimum wealth threshold) they are happy and usually prefer dating Colombian wealth due to their shared language, culture, community status and local friend network.
Estrato 3-4
This is the sweet spot gentlemen.
If you are an average looking guy (even sub par sometimes) with a respectable net-worth, or stable western career, here is your opportunity to wife up a 7/10 to 10/10 looks wise colombian women.
These women usually have university degrees, speak english, are hard working, more humble than the higher estrato girls, are more open to gringos or finding a way to leave the country.
With that said, these girls typically find wealth more attractive than status comparatively to the higher estrato girls. The problem is these girls are more susceptible to temptation from everyone, so it is important you find as virtuous as you can type of girl, unless your just here for fun.
The other issue is that these girls if they have a job, they work like slaves in Colombia so they do not have much time to see you. Only Colombian festive holidays, at night, or their one day off a week. They are really keen on finding for their knight in shinning armour to get them out of the rat race.
Estrato 1-2
These girls come from a poor household. They are more desperate and will say yes more easier and to some of your more ogre looking types. They are mostly not very well educated, do not speak english, don’t eat healthy, or have good habits. Meaning their prime usually is around 18-23, maybe 25 max. Because they have poor seed oil, fried, processed or fast food type diets they will turn into empanadas after 23-25 years of age fast, and when pregnancy comes, they turn into a whole other beast.
Here you will find more desperate gold digger type girls, but you will also find good traditional religious girls as well. Although you can find some beautiful girls here, the problem is their mannerism and culture. They come from a scarce mindset and even if they are not necessarily gold digger intended, they will require some form of financial dependancy from you. They will usually ask for help with bills, medical expenses or basic necessities. If your looking for a long term commitment with these type of Colombian women. Try and vet for the religious if your thinking something longterm.
What all Colombian Women share in common
All Colombian women expect a romantic, passionate, love bombing, attention giving type of man. The Colombian man, lacking in resources or looks, have made up their deficits by spoiling and accustoming Colombian women with constant romanticism. Now they all think they live in a novela. The typical career focused western man can come off as cold. Even when you think you are giving more attention and romanticism to these Colombian women then you are used to in the west, they will still feel like you are not seriously interested due to the bad habits Colombian men have set the standard to. However there are some exceptions here, evidently the more money, or the more good looking you are the more understandable Colombian women can be. Or, if they are single mothers but why would you do that to yourself.
All Colombian women are interesadas! Meaning they care for the size of your wallet. However some, or maybe a lot, value this as their primary characteristic a man must have. These are the ones I avoid… too gold digger for me. Although I understand now how this is actually a good characteristic to have, ( I used to be too humble about my networth/businesses) I don’t mind a women who values this now, but don’t like it when it’s the primary or sole characteristic they are looking for within a man. Those bitches will bleed you dry, and the moment you can’t keep up with the lifestyle they want (yet they never had) you are replaced or replaced when a bigger spender comes along. Avoid these gold diggers at all costs.
Most Colombian women are vain! Colombians in general are very elitist and classist, this doesn’t just apply for women but men too. Colombians care a lot about outward appearances, how they look, reputation, flashiness, status. Colombians are know for being the sexy of the latinos and Colombians are doing everything to keep that title. The higher the estrato the more important of a factor this is. They all think they are living a life of kings and queens, a who’s who world, and love to speak ill will at any moments chance (especially Colombian women, their viperous tongue is like a defence mechanism for violence they can use). This is why a lot of women are plastic barbie dolls & very high maintenance. It’s a double edged sword. So keep your guard up, especially in the higher social circles. I can play these games with these people, but honestly I’d rather not. I feel like im just out for conquest to one up these type of women and put them in their place. It can get fatiguing…I prefer a more sincere religious type not caught up in this irrelevant type of status game. Usually the lower the estrato the less of a concern this is but the more of a concern an anti-rich attitude can be held the lower the estrato you go.
Understanding Colombian Women
Religion
Majority of girls are all Protestant or Catholic. Anything else is usually a deonyme of Christianity. I’ve never met a muslim, jew, buddhist, girl in Colombia unless they were tourists.
What Colombian Women think of certain cultures
A lot of women actually find Arabs attractive. Lebanese, Syrian, Turks, Moroccan type. I think it has to do with the fact that there is a descent amount of descendants of them in the coastal cities of Colombia. Especially Barranquilla. You see a lot of Arab names still today and family names but they are all Christian arabs today.
Good Colombian girls typically tend to hate passport bros, American Woke culture, unaesthetic men, cheap mean.
Best Places to Meet Colombian Women
- GYM
- Church
- Hostals
- Parks
- Grocery Stores
- Stores they work at (The Mall)
- Beach
- Festivals (Carnival, Festival de los fritos, Christmas in Cartagena, Semana Santa)
Colombian Prostitutes
For those weak beta males or just overall losers looking to just enjoy the sex tourism of Colombia. Your typically coming down for “prepagos” (prepaid women). It is easy to identify the majority of them. They walk the streets and will hit on you. Normal good colombian girls will never do that. They usually where tight neon dresses with high heals or revealing clothing. Usually in pairs. Personally prostitutes are not my thing. I don’t need to pay for sex and prefer the conquest, but for the weaker men I guess un passionate cold stone business deal is better than no escape at all. However be careful. You can check out this great article here on how to avoid getting scopolamined while on tinder in Colombia.
What Colombian Women look for in a man
Emotionally
They love attentive men that goes without saying. Constant texting, good morning, goodnight, did you eat type questions… I dont have the time for that stuff and tell them right off the bat that because I am a business man I wont be able to but will be attentive to them when in person “Quality time” not frequency of time is what I state. You must always pay the bills and be supportive financially. DO NOT TRY that Euro BS of 50/50 you will be done. Colombian women are more expensive the higher the estrato you go. They want a man not a “principito”. They want traditional type thinking men, even the ones that seem more free spirited or feminist, they ultimately desire this, even if they don’t realize it, they yearn it. They want all the love languages in one. You pretty much have to be an attentive, available, financially supportive, sweet talking, sex machine. As for all women worldwide tho, if you lead with whatever of the 5 love languages their last relationship was lacking, your off to a great start.
Physically
The majority of women I speak to when I ask there type, i would say 70% don’t really base their type on looks but on emotional traits first. However when I pick at the matter more intensely to them it seems it’s always tend to be what they lack of supply here in Colombia. Tall, white, blonde guys. On all my many dates on meeting Colombian Women. Only 1 has ever told me she liked black guys. (White American Women love them tho).
How to Seduce Colombian Women
Now there are many angles to attack and this but ultimately understanding your strengths goes a long way to finding your edge with Colombian Women. From what I’ve seen, a man with ambition, vision, romanticism, a healthy amount of sternness, and charm will go a long way.
One thing is for certain you must come in with the intentions of seriousness with how you see this girl for the long haul. I am not saying lie to her that you will marry her but let it be known that you are on this date with the intention of finding the wife of your dreams. That you are not here to waste her time nor yours. Setting this tone creates the solid foundation for eventual conquest. She has to have the impression you are setting up roots here in Colombia or will be back very soon to do so. Unless you find her travelling in the city you are in then no need for foundations, she is here for vacation.
If you want to finally break free of your jurisdictional enslavement you must become a digital nomad first.
